First and foremost I want to wish my husband a Happy 1st Fathers Day!
Then I want to dedicate this blog post to all of us whose Daddies are up in heaven celebrating Father's Day.
Whether you were 2 or 78 when your Dad was called HOME,
it still hurts just the same.
The little boy featured in this blog post lost his father last September-
This is Carter's First Father's Day without a Daddy to shower with gifts, take to a baseball game, or share a steak with.
Today, along with many other days, Carter will miss his dad.
Luckily, he has an amazing mommy who will remind him of his father's love.
Carter,
You will not understand this until you have a child of your own but I know your Dad was incredibly proud of you, and still is as he watches you grow from heaven.
I never met your Dad but within 24 hours of your Dad leaving this world, I regretted never knowing him.
He was loved by so many.
Everyone (but me) knew your Dad, and enjoyed his presence.
I hope your memories of him stay fresh, and that when they start to fade those who loved him will remind you of who he was.
I hope that you know he didn't want to leave you
and that if his love for you were enough, he would still be here today.
When you miss him, talk to him- he can still hear you.
Remember that you are blessed to have had him,
even if it was for a short period of time.
You had more love from your dad in a few short years than many children get in a lifetime.
I am sorry you have to miss your Dad on Father's Day,
but I am so happy you have such a wonderful family to help heal the pain.
Wishing Billy Jack a Happy 1st Father's Day in heaven.
-Amy Meyerott
The smirk in the picture below is going to cause a lot of trouble one day. He is so stinking handsome!!
It is quite probable that Carter thinks I am crazy...
Lauren,
I know it has to be confusing and heartbreaking raising a son without his Dad.
Nothing will heal the hurt you feel for this loss.
Just know that you are doing a wonderful job.